Voices
Filed under: General, Marraige, Poetry, Relationships
I am in dark place
a limited, watery space
But I grow bigger and bigger
I have supplies here as much as I needed.
I have a sensitive feel
I can feel sadness, happiness and get scared.
My hearing is also fantastic
eventhough I cannot fully understand it.
I always heard this lovely voice
it makes me relax and feel secure.
The voice always called me “My Baby”
I don’t know but I think it’s my name for sure.
When I’m active, I explore myself
I kick and transfer to different places.
I heard another voices saying,
“Calm baby, Mommy’s hurt. This is Daddy.”
Two voices which I got familiar with
I know their differences
But I am sure of one thing
I feel good when I always hears them.
My Baby is going to school
As a parent,you want to give the best for your children. You want them to feel what a child in the metro should get. You want something that deserves them to give or better. One important thing that a parent like us could give to them is education. Since that my baby is too young, I have much time to save his tuition fees. I know by that time tuition fees are already increases. So I have to work hard in my earnings. I prefer a good school for my child. I know that this school have an interview and entrance exam. So, I will train and teach my baby to read and count numbers at early age. At 6 months or 1 year old, I want him to go on a playroom to develop his social skills. I will also enrol him in certain program like music for him to discover his talent niche. I have lots of plans for my baby in the future. I am so excited when he go to school.
Working at your own pace
Having your own time and manage it is a practice were everybody dream of.You can wake up late in the morning without rushing yourself going to the office. If your work is at your home that could be another good factor because it can lessen your transportation dues. You earn your own at your own time. There’s no 8 to 9 hours woking in 5 or 6 days. But still it depends because if you are a businessman, the working hours you have is flexible yet unpredicatable. The good side of working at your own is that you control your time and have lots of it. You can go to the mall or stays in the house whichever you like. But the downfall of it, the boredom is still there. Some of your friends are working in traditional working time so at your own pace of time, you have few people who can accompany you. Sometimes, it is sad to be alone and being impatient waiting for your colleagues day off for you to have a happy hour.
Having a Baby Shower or not
I am pregnant and plans to have a baby shower. It takes me three months in preparation. But a month before of my plan date, I got confuse if I have to pursue it or not. I already have my guest list, invitations lay out, program and food list. But just abrupt situation, things change. I am a practical person. I value the worth of each penny. I wonder that the cash we are going to spend for that party can be allocate in buying baby stuff instead. At least, I can choose whatever brand and style I want. But in my plan shower, I also have wish list but am not sure if my guest will follow. On the otherhand, it is also a get together of my old friends that I never seen for long. My hubby told me that I should pursue it since that I’m longing and preparing this fo how many months ago. I still have to see and weigh the pros and cons. But come to think of it, this party is not for me but for my baby. Why not stick to the plan might as well?
Being a wife
House is my workplace
Taking care of the children is my main job
Feeding, cleaning and playing with them
are the things that rewards my tiring day.
Aside from the kids in the house
I am also in-charge with housekeeping
Making sure that everything is all organize
Cleanliness and orderliness are always a must.
Washing clothes, cleaning and cooking
Doing these household chores is not that easy
Loaded of work cannot be estimate
Being like me is like a wondermom.
When my husband come home late at night
Preparing fine dinner and fix his clothes
Giving him a relax massage
to remove stress in his tiring job.
Funny it seems that I don’t have a break
Being a wife is not a job
It is a dedication for your family
Only their love will make it rewarded.
Spending Christmas with my Hubby
Filed under: General, Marraige, Poetry, Relationships
Christmas is near
With angels and lights blinking in the streets
Sharing and giving should possess
Spreading love and joy we must assess.
This could be our first Christmas together
Only the two of us left home
Our parents and helpers are out
I must say things will be fine and ok.
I can prepare simple dish for us
or let’s buy something worth in the restaurant
Spending the Christmas eve by the two of us
will be happy and joyful like the sun.
We could exchange gifts and decorate our christmas tree
To forget the loneliness we felt inside
Let’s celebrate the night with fun
Because Christmas is meant to be joyful to everyone.
Behind Man’s Success
Filed under: General, Marraige, Relationships, Working
There’s a belief that “Behind man’s success is a woman”. How can this be true? I agree with this belief. It is usually happens in a couple where they have to support each other at all aspect. Building a strong foundation of trust and relationship really helps. When you have this, motivating your partner in doing his own thing is now easy. Uplift his spirit and serve’s as a coach can help in pushing him to the road of success. But first, knowing his goal or wants should be done first or you will end up pushing him doing things that against his will. Listening is the key. When he asked for your opinion, just give the pros and cons of each so that he could have an option. Be a great adviser but don’t disappoint if sometimes, he didn’t listen to you. He will learn on his own way but in the end, he will still consider the thoughts of yours. Praise your husband if he done good things or if he looks good. Man’s needs to be appreciated sometimes. It can increase their self esteem and confidence as well. If a man have a strong confidant at home, he could do better in his work.
Through Thick and Thin
As a couple, we experience a lot of ups and down. Sometimes, it really crashes us and tear apart but still, we ended up together. For five years of being together, we experience more hatred to each other. Sometimes, we both cry for those mistakes. But there are also times that amazed us. Even in a small penny we can spend together happy. Yes, during those times I told myself that I want to spent my whole life with him. Having a good companion, you can fight the battle of life together. I already visualize us doing that together. Because I believe that we will support each other through thick and thin. Everything that we own is being shared.It is whether each goodness or bad time. But what is the secret of making us to be like this? I finally now know and sure. It is our love that is unconditional and true. With Greatness guidance, we are in the right track in this journey of life.
How it works
Marriage is a journey. It involves adventure. At first, it is pretty exciting to play the role. We make sure to give our best to serve each other and be the best on each role. But as time goes on, things change. Trials are now coming. It is a test of relationship on how far you can go. At this stage, the real you will seen. You cannot pretend to be the best. The worst in you shown. Sometimes, these things will make both of you stronger or break both of you. Maturity is the key. When you’re mature, you are rational. You become more understanding and patient. The thing that urges you to do this is love. When you’re in love, you should have trust and faith to each other. That’s how the magic works! Generally, they said that it works because of love. Indeed, it is.
Love trials
During early years of marriage, struggles and trials are always enclosed. It’s hard because this is the stage of both couple will adjust to each other values, attitudes and beliefs. Frequent fights are always present to the couple everyday regime. Pride and ego were sometimes blocks the couple to be understandable and patient. Unwanted words were usually thrown out to hurt each other.
Whatever the reason of the fight will be, the important is the lesson learn after the fight should always put in mind. It can make the relationship stronger. It can also help the couple to know each other more. Through this familiarity and experience, they can avoid the circumstances to be repeated again and again. These are just the trials that a couple may face but still their love will never fade.
Ups and Down
Marriage is a journey. Couple fell into an adventure that will make or break them. There are lots of things needed to pack it up in this journey. Shed of tears and gift of hapiness were the outcome of the work you had. In the end, this whole adventure will make both of you learn and keep stronger.
Misunderstanding and miscommunication are the obstacles you are going to face. You can avoid this by being open-minded, rational and patient. Trust is your strength. Faith to your destiny will lead your way. Just go along the journey with partnership. Struggle together and help each other. A promise of happiness awaits in the end.
My Baby
Little angel you are to me
Gift from heavens above
Oh! Tiny little one
My love for you is eternity.
My feelings for you dear
I can’t find words to describe it
No actions to express it
Just a thought of showing it my all.
Promise that I will be there
when you needed me the most
Loving you is unconditional
It’s a promise that is forever.
My baby, my little one, here I am
One who loves you dearly
From the start you own a life
I already treasure and love you.
Baby shower
I am so excited planning a small party for my baby shower. I still don’t know the gender of my baby so, my theme for the shower is neutral. I prefer to use pastel color to be safe. But what are the things to host a party like showers? First is to have a theme. Make it a color theme or character based. For my shower party, I prefer a baby bear with pastel colors. Then, make a guest list for the invitations and the amount of foods you’re going to serve. Invitations should be delivered to the guest 2 weeks or a month advance prior to the event. A confirmation of attending from the guest should be practice for the right guest expecting for that day. Party favors is also a must haves. It serves as the souvenirs of your guests from your party. To make the party lively plan a program that includes games. There are lots of things to create a wonderful party or shower.Imagination and creativeness are the key.
Baby Shower!
I am having a baby shower this coming December. I’m so excited about that. The preparations I had were very detailed. I want something that has a theme. Everything organize and in uniform.
I still don’t know if it’s a boy or girl. But I already have something in mind. A pink/blue and brown color combination as my color theme. It is a modern baby shower theme. I’ll just have a balloons with ribbons as decor and a wonderful personalize centerpice. The foods were ideal for snacks because I’m planning to have it after lunch time. I prepare three games like grth guessing, bottoms up and raffle. I can’t wait to see that event. As a mom, everything I will do for my upcoming baby.
Without you
Filed under: General, Marraige, Poetry, Relationships
My life will never be
like the colorful rainbow in the sky
that gives amazement and happiness.
It’s like a star that glitters in the sky
gives signs as it shines.
Feelings I had inside
cannot be explain when I see you smile
My heart trembles as you got near
the feelings I love again and again.
Can’t live if you’re not here
with me to come along
As we go on in this life,
it is not right having without you by my side.
My feelings to you dear
is not that what you think.
More than anyone could know
my love is true, real and forever.