Is Love conquers all?
If you are inlove there lots of love quotes that you can relate to your present relationship. Some of them started with not so quite peaceful or the conventional thing. Most of them were done secretely because their parents or friends might got angry. In short, there are people that are against in their relationship. But we believe to the true nature of our feelings so, we usually fight our love. At first, it’s like a fairy tale that the world is against your love but, ends up in happy ending. It is not usually happen in reality. There are some cases but most of the time breaking up is the only thing.Especially if the couple is at young age and still dependent to their parents, it’s hard for them to fight back. There are cases that succeeded. But few are ended up to return to their parent’s home and realize the mistakes they did. There’s no right and wrong in falling inlove. Sometimes, timing will make it wrong.
Feeling of having a First Love
When we are young, we didn’t know if our feelings is love or infatuation.We just know how good it feels. On how happy we are to experience the very moment of seeing the person we like. Our hands are sweating, voice are trembling and we feel nervous when we talked to our dearly one. It’s a good feeling that we get addictive every each day.Just seeing them can complete our stressful day.
Love letters, cards, flowers and chocolates were the symbol of such wonderful feeling. We give one of these to someone who is special for us.If we receive one, we feel great and happy. Of course, a lot of excitement and zest if we get something from our special someone.It’s like a dream come true. The two of you were compatible and meant for each other. You feel that you two will get married and have kids in the future.It’s like having a perfect family.
But now, just enjoy this moment of being in love at young age.Feel the greatness and fullfilment of young adulthood.To make this time of having a first love unforgettable.
Having a Date for the First Time
Nowadays, dating is limitless in some ways. It is too complex. There a lot of things to experiment and to be creative. Dating now is flexible.
But what are the things to be considered in dating? First is, asking ourselves our goal in dating. Are we just want to have fun or we want to have a serious relationship after? Because if we are not clear with our intentions it may lead to different expectations by our date.
Second is to consider your partner. You have to know what are their favorite places to visit, favorite foods, and their hobbies. You can have an unforgettable date ever by being creative.Use your imagination. You should plan. Through this, you have to consider also your budget. It should be within your limits.It’s better to be safe than regret and be embarassed in the end.
It is not about pleasing your date.The importance of dating is to know each other well and to enjoy each other’s company. Having a good impression is a must. Be a good conversationalist to make the date fun. Who knows this may lead to a wonderful relationship after?
When Dating, Protect 4 Things…
Following up on a recent post about Boomer singles…
The Olympian recently published an article by Tom Black that encouraged older singles to protect 4 key things while dating.
What were those 4 things?
- Your Heart
While loneliness is difficult, having one’s heart broken at our age is worse. Be careful where you allow your heart to lead you. Trust your instincts.
You may be longing for companionship, but this is no reason to let your guard down. If a person seems too good to be true, he/she probably is!
- Your Health
With the proliferation of male enhancement drugs like Viagra, Levitra and Cialis, some older men think they’re the king stud and expect sex like dessert after dinner. The danger of getting a STD exists among the older set. And it’s not just men who transmit STDs. Women also can be carriers. Both sexes need to be cautious.
The risk of getting HIV or AIDS is increasing among people over 50, so please don’t feel rushed when it comes to intimacy. Be safe and learn the facts.
- Your Drink
One woman had a couple of dates with a perfect gentleman. Then, he invited her to his house for dinner. After dining and nice conversation, she woke up nude at three in the morning in his bed. He had placed a date-rape drug in her wine glass. Not in a bar, not by a stranger, but by a man she trusted and enjoyed.
Yes, date rape can (and does) happen. Never let your drink — no matter what it is! — out of your site.
- Your Assets
Widows are particularly vulnerable. Many are lonely and their husbands might have made the financial decisions. Mr. Right comes along, gains a widow’s love and trust, and offers to help with finances. If that sounds familiar, have your new beau checked out by a private investigator.
Often, the Internet is used for these “sweetheart scams.” Don’t be fooled! Always stay in control of your money. Use your head (not your heart) when making important financial decisions.