Going out and splurge
I want to go to a place that is relaxing. I want to escape the things that stresses me. I want to rest for a while. To be in a place that is like a paradise is my dream.
Yes, I want to have a vacation. I want to disappear for quite sometime.I want to have peace to escape all the problems that bothers me.To find a quite place, enjoy and have fun.
I’m planning to go to a beach.Any beach that are hit in the metro. Maybe three days or one week stay will be fun.
Drinking fresh fruit shakes in a sunny day beside the seashore is the first thing I will do when I got there. Feel the fresh air of the sea will soothe me.Spend time in a cozy hotel and being serve by the hospitality of the maids makes the vacation worthwhile. Involving in an activity like scuba diving,jetskiing, banana boating,and surfing makes it more adventurous. Of course, vacation is not complete without shopping! You have to buy things for your love ones and also things as souvenirs.
I am dreaming now. I have to make this plan to come true. I need to book myself first in a hotel of my chosen beach to stay. Just go there and splurge myself for relaxation.
Feeling of having a First Love
When we are young, we didn’t know if our feelings is love or infatuation.We just know how good it feels. On how happy we are to experience the very moment of seeing the person we like. Our hands are sweating, voice are trembling and we feel nervous when we talked to our dearly one. It’s a good feeling that we get addictive every each day.Just seeing them can complete our stressful day.
Love letters, cards, flowers and chocolates were the symbol of such wonderful feeling. We give one of these to someone who is special for us.If we receive one, we feel great and happy. Of course, a lot of excitement and zest if we get something from our special someone.It’s like a dream come true. The two of you were compatible and meant for each other. You feel that you two will get married and have kids in the future.It’s like having a perfect family.
But now, just enjoy this moment of being in love at young age.Feel the greatness and fullfilment of young adulthood.To make this time of having a first love unforgettable.
Second Chances
Some married couples are fortunate enough to stay together their whole lives. But still, there are some who have been married for many years and then still separate in the end.
It makes me wonder what could have pushed these people to get divorce. I think all those years that they have been together, they would know everything there is to know about their partners. It just makes sense that they have fully adjusted to each other’s idiosyncrasies. But I guess, people do change and it is just sad that some things could not be worked out anymore.
My parents went through the same phase a few years ago. They started to fight a lot and then there were shouting and then a cold war. My mom gave my dad a cold shoulder treatment and we were all affected. I thought they would not make up anymore. My mom was contemplating on separation and it came as a surprise to us. My brothers and I are all grown-up and we didn’t imagine that this will come at this time, not when they have been married for more than 25 years. We prepared ourselves for the worst. After all, it’s their decision and we thought whatever makes them happy and feel at peace, we will support them all the way.
But one fine day, everything fell into place. They were no longer fighting. They started talking again and finally, faced the problem. It was a joyous day for us. Their marriage was saved! We couldn’t be happier. I guess when the going gets tough, it all boils down to love. As long as it’s still within their hearts, they’ll always find their way back to each other.
Dating an only child
Dating an only child is a great challenge. Generally, when people hear “only child” it either means mama’s boy for guys or daddy’s girl for ladies. Sometimes we tend to label each person by these lines. I thought so myself. But in my own experience, I have proven that not all only child are brats or spoiled as what others usually call them.
I am dating an only child. I consider him an exception to all only children I have met. I salute the discipline that his parents had taught him. He is not brought up to have all the wants in life. He has good values and respect for everyone. We’ve been dating for five years now and I am proud to say that we rarely have fights. I’d say it comes with balancing the mood at the moment an argument would arise. Despite my nagging attitude at times, he would manage to transform my mood into a more positive outlook. I truly love the humility in him.
He is a rare find. Despite imperfections in this world, with the right balance in a relationship either with an only child or not, the upbringing of a person is all accounted for through parents.
Welcome, New Couple!
Many of us were excited to be with our partner in the same house. Why? Because we want to be with them all the time. To see what’s the ideal family looks like. Some of us think about having a live in partner or the thought of having a wedding.Sometimes our excitement pushes us to do things that are unusual for us. We were succeeded by our feelings that we forgot to use our head to think.We didn’t know what’s it looks like being in a battle without a gun.
Adjustment is the key.You are two being with unique qualities.There are things that you have similar qualities but don’t be surprised with different ones.I suggest that you have to talk to each other about that and agreed in the end that you both will have an adjustment in both differences. There’s also a fighting involved.We cannot avoid that.The couple should have an open communication to talk about the problems that happens in the relationship.I think there’s also a maturity involved for you to understand each other.
Love makes us stronger.If we stick with that, all hardships and difficulties in our relationship will overcome by us.We also have to be loyal and trust each other.A relationship without trust is nothing.
Having a Date for the First Time
Nowadays, dating is limitless in some ways. It is too complex. There a lot of things to experiment and to be creative. Dating now is flexible.
But what are the things to be considered in dating? First is, asking ourselves our goal in dating. Are we just want to have fun or we want to have a serious relationship after? Because if we are not clear with our intentions it may lead to different expectations by our date.
Second is to consider your partner. You have to know what are their favorite places to visit, favorite foods, and their hobbies. You can have an unforgettable date ever by being creative.Use your imagination. You should plan. Through this, you have to consider also your budget. It should be within your limits.It’s better to be safe than regret and be embarassed in the end.
It is not about pleasing your date.The importance of dating is to know each other well and to enjoy each other’s company. Having a good impression is a must. Be a good conversationalist to make the date fun. Who knows this may lead to a wonderful relationship after?
I didn’t miss it!
In yesterday’s post I said be careful because you may easily miss your sons or daughter’s “firsts” in life. I learnt that same lesson by being with my son today when he showed signs of almost rolling over on his belly. It’s a good thing I was there because sure enough he rolled over and not once but at least 4 times and now he is falling asleep half-way on his stomach (that was a real surprise last night!). Things go by way too fast though. He has already rolled over and has been learning his consonants and vowels and next thing I know he will be talking and crawling. We don’t live in the moment long enough so we miss so much. It’s no wonder things go so fast.
Menopausal Baby
I am one of the unique babies born on the menopausal stage of my mother. As she had narrated, I was born when she was 44 years old. I am 7 years younger than my sister. The gap is tremendously huge, right? hehe.Most people think that menopausal babies are special. Although the word “special” may mean two different things. First, special as someone with low capabilites. Second, special as someone with exceeding talents.
Personally, I think the definition is unnecessary. There may be truth in it but the idea of putting label on it makes it different.
Generally, I’d like to stand as proof that menopausal babies are just like the rest. Each person is special in different ways. Thus, nobody should feel alienated because of this.
Let us all enjoy life and be grateful for what we are.
A year-old orphan
Eight years after my dad died, another pillar of my life was taken away from me. The best friend, teacher, and mother had passed away a year ago.
Apart from the closeness I had with my dad, the bond I had with my mother was incomparable. No words can measure how much close we were. She was my greatest teacher. She taught me a lot of things and the greatest was learning to love others unconditionally.
My dad taught me how to be self-reliant and responsible while my mom taught me how to do chores to live by. Being the youngest, more often than not, I used to bum around. But while growing up, both of my parents had been patient in teaching me how to live independently. They prepared me and undergone a sort of training before I was sent to college. Part of my training was to learn how to cook. They said that it is important for me to learn cooking for my own good. There had been a lot of cases where I burnt the food I was cooking. It was tough, but I didn’t give up. Eventually, I mastered the art of cooking. Now, I am proud to say that what they taught me, it may not be a material thing but I live by it in everyday of my life.
I am now one-year old orphan. It is sad to live all by myself. But my parents’ inheritance is more than a million worth of lessons that I’d learned.
Daddy’s Girl
I proclaim myself a certified daddy’s girl. I grew up from a large family and being the youngest is quite tough. My siblings would let me do their errands and at times, bullies me around.
My father was always there to protect me. I remember back then how strict he was. Stories from my sisters who had suitors coming for a visit at home said that my dad would have to join them. He would sit with them while they converse. And at the dining table, he made sure everyone is focused on eating. We call it table manners. There should be no one making any unwanted noise such as biting the food loudly, or even dipping or using the serving spoon. He made sure that he has his own set of spoon and fork, plate, etc. Also, he has a long stick that can reach the other end of the long table. That stick was his disciplinary tool for all of us who defy his table manners.
In the family, nobody can stand a conversation with my dad but me. We can talk anything and everything under the sun except about boys. He was a good listener. I admired his outlook in life. He was my guide and advisor. He taught me to aim for success in everything I do.
My siblings envy the bond I had with my father. Sadly, he died 8 years ago. I lost one of the pillars I had in my life. It was tough for me being the closest daughter to him. I was a few months to graduating from college when he passed away. It was the most difficult time for me as he had always been my partner on stage to receive my merit since I started going to school. Now, I live a life with his teachings. He taught me well and I’ll forever cherish it.
Retirement Plans
My parents are already in their 50’s but they do not entertain the idea of retiring yet. My mother runs a small eatery while my father does sales work. When he is not busy meeting with a prospective client, he can be found helping my mother in the business. When I don’t have work to do, I also make it a point to visit them so that I can help out during busy hours.
I have asked them at what age do they plan to take it slow with work and they were one in saying that they would relax after my youngest brother finishes his college education. I would definitely want them to rest easy because I know that they have been working real hard ever since we were young.
It’s a good thing that they will both have pension when they reach 60 years old at least they would have enough money for their needs. Of course, my brothers and I will help them no matter what happens but I’m sure they would want money of their own.
For now, my parents are enjoying their lives and are happy that they already have two grandchildren to complete it. We have a complete family and are just thankful that we are always there for each other.
Be Careful or You will miss it!
I am very upset today because all month long my 4 1/2 month old son has been trying so hard to roll over and everyone has been teaching him. He was so close yesterday which was very interesting to see. But that isn’t what has me upset. This morning I was typing after I placed my son on his back on his play aquarium mat and when I turned around to see why he was quiet all of a sudden I saw that my darling son rolled over onto his belly and I MISSED it!!! I wanted so badly to see it too. I learnt a lesson though; if your baby is close to rolling over and you just laid him down….stay with him and play with him therefore ensuring that you don’t miss that proud moment!
Heather
my priceless gift
I think my life truly started when I gave birth to my firstborn named Purple.Now I know that there is no greater calling in life than to be a mother.I never knew I had it in me to be as selfless,loving or smitten towards anyone until I had her.Sometimes when I look at her,I thought my heart would literally burst from the sheer joy of seeing & feeling her.
I am in complete awe.Up to now,I’m still amazed that she is of my own flesh & blood,nurtured in my womb for nine months… indeed she is a product of love by my Alvin & me.